Tips: Must do things at least once in your life

12/28/2017 0 Comments A+ a-

Life is itself an opportunity that we have. Every day you wake up there are people taking their final breath yet we never realize the value of this gift until it is too late and we are left with regrets. grab this opportunity and make most of it. Look forward to make your day most fulfilled and satisfying one. Do things that makes you happy. Stuck in a boring lifestyle? Actually nothing is as boring as you make it to be. Always have that curiosity in you that will make everything fun. You learn new things from everything you thought was boring. Here are actually a few things that you should do once in a life. Doing so not only gives you a thing to look forward to but also help you be excited about it. 
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1. Travel alone:

Yes, what I mean by travel alone isn't just take a bus, a plane or a train alone. I actually mean is go to a new place or as many as you want on your own. Take all the actions required on your own. Book a hotel, take a cab, roam around. At least once in your lifetime do it on your own, be your own companion, enjoy your own company. Learn how to manage things on your own. Your money, learn how to invest and where to when you are travelling so that you do not end up broke. This will help you have confidence over other matters too. Be careful while choosing your destination if you are travelling alone for the first time. States like Sikkim should be in your bucket list for the first timers.

2. Watch the sunrise and sunset:

You do not have to be on a beach to enjoy these natural phenomena. They occur everyday. So take your time out of the busy schedule, grab a cup of your favourite coffee and enjoy the sunset from your own terrace if it is visible or make a little effort to capture it. When I say capture it I do not mean from your camera rather from your eyes and get drenched on the joy of it. As for the morning sunrise you need to wake up early than the sun. Know what timings do the sun rise at your locality and try to wake up because this is one of the satisfying thing you shouldn't miss in your life.
 
3. Enjoy the rain:

It is time you get yourself wet. It is much satisfying when you have a friend to enjoy with. Trust me such moments will be remembered forever. Even if you do not want to get wet. Try catching the raindrops. The sensation can actually not be put into words. So either you enjoy the weather with a warm beverage or be part of it the next time when you actually do not have an umbrella. Instead of staying back and waiting for rain to stop. Have a little ball with the rain.

4. Ride or drive:

Nothing can beat your blues as easily as the long ride or a drive. So learn to either ride or drive so that you can go anywhere you want to without actually waiting for anything. 


5. Race:

Race at least once. May be just a race where you run, a marathon or a car race.
You win or you lose but do not give up. Reach the finishing line and be proud of yourself. You can have  friendly race with your friends as you did when you were kids. It will be fun.




6. Bungee jumping:

No matter how scary it sounds it is definitely one of the things that you must try. Nothing beats the feeling of it.






7. Cook:

We daily cook our meals three times a day but you can always create new things. Do not be afraid to try new combination. Try cooking something that you always order on your visits to restaurants. Do not just settle for anything that comes on your table. Try out the hidden chef in you.



8. Watch a movie alone:

Have you cancelled your plans for the movies because your friends backed out?
Next time that happens do not be afraid to try it on your own. This will not only give you your time with yourself but also take away the fear of being alone. It is time you go on a movie date with yourself.

9. Hiking/trekking:

Do not miss out on this adventurous thing. Gather your friends and plan for a hike doesn't matter if it is just  nearby destination or a far one as long as you are doing it. This is the best time one can have if he/she is a nature lover. Here you actually become part of Nature.

10. Gardening:

Time to get your hands dirty. Sow some flowers, water them, provide the proper manure. Planting or gardening actually help you in keeping patience, gives you joy when you see your hard work blossom.




11. Own a pet:

This is a actually a must do thing in your life. Owning a pet will not only help you be more responsible but also help you keep happy most of the time. 



12. Visit an old age home or an orphanage:

Not all people are as lucky as you are. Show some love to them. Visit them often and make them feel loved. When you give you get happiness in return.

Tips: Have an amazing personality

12/22/2017 5 Comments A+ a-

Sometimes we are attracted to a person whom we do not even know. Have you come over with such experiences or situations where you dislike somebody with no particular reason. It is because of their personality. You will certainly not be attracted to someone who is cold with his words, who carries negative vibes around him. Someone with positive vibes attract more people. So here are some tips to help you improve your personality. This will help you in short as well as long run. 

1. Appearance:

No, you cannot change the shape of your face without external procedures but you can always have a clean face, sweet breath, clean teeth and a happy expression. The best expression one can have is a smile. It passes on a friendly vibes. You cannot afford to buy new clothes every time you head out of your house but you can at least wear clean, ironed, and presentable clothes. You can wear your old clothes by making it fitting to your body. They should have all the buttons, all the bubbles removed and well ironed. Always make sure that you are clean as well as you smell good.

2. Health:

Healthy people always have optimistic approach to every thing leading to a happy environment resulting in many friends whereas the one who is always ill tends to be more pessimistic and dulls all the energy around him. Illness leads to reduction in vitality to perform and thus creates the pessimistic environment. Thus it is necessary to take care of ones health. By inculcating good habits such as exercise, drinking enough water and eating balanced diet.

3. Speech:

It is always necessary to make sure you aren't too loud or too low than the required speech sound. You cannot scream when you are having a date or speak low when presenting to hundreds of audience. You do not like someone who always speaks on top of their voice or someone whom you have problems in hearing them. So always manage your speech level according to the requirement of the situation.

4. Interests:

If you are a person who has a few interests and you keep talking about them every time you meet them than you tend to bore them easily and they will keep avoiding you or like wise you tend to avoid the above mentioned kind of people. So it is always necessary to have many interest that can help you keep up with any kind of conversation without making them bored. Reading a newspaper always keeps you updated.

5. Vibes:

There are basically two types of vibes, positive and negative. Some people have a positive outlook on life like they are glad that there is a cat to lick the spilled milk rather than the ones who keep complaining about the spilled milk for a whole day as well as blame someone for it and ruin their day too. You do not want to be around the second kind of people. Nor would anyone if it were you. But positive outlook does not mean pretending that life is easy or that problems do not exist but having a habit of looking for the solution, making the solution work. People with positive attitude gets things done. On the other hand people with negative vibes stay there and continue complaining for as long as they can.

6: Ability to appreciate:

People who tend to look for faults always remain without friends whereas people are attracted to those who help them look for their own good points and appreciate them for who they are and what they did. The feeling if  being appreciated is always liked. You need to be more aware of the people, show interest in their lives without being nosy. You cannot be interesting if you aren't interested. 
Hope this will help you improve your personality as well as be a better human. As a final tip I would like to add that people with a sense of humour are always liked. But do not offend people by telling jokes about them.

Tips: Know the best heel for you

12/18/2017 0 Comments A+ a-

Have you ever wondered what kind of heels you should wear according to you body shape and height and according to your time of wearing heels. Heels are saviour for girls with short height but can be equally handy for the ones with tall body features. Heels not only makes you look taller but also adds to your physical beauty. You may be afraid of it as it seems real uncomfortable but you will fall in love with it once you start wearing them. Trust me the compliments will start flowing.



1. Kitty or kitten heels:

Begin with the shortest heels that you can find. Kitty heels or kitten heels can be a problem solver. Kitty heels are an alternative for women who are just a beginners in wearing heels. Adolescent girls, who are considered too young for high heels can choose kitty heels for that glam look. Starting with a lower heel will take away the fears as well as help you to gain confidence as you move up the inches of heels. It is a necessary step because you will not only feel uncomfortable but also look uncomfortable if you directly wear tall heels. Ankle strap shoes are unfortunately meant for girls with lanky legs. It is a lot less flattering when worn by someone petite. So if you are opting for kitty heels go for the ones that are without straps if you are of petite frame.

2. Wedges and block:

Once you feel comfortable in kitty heels yet not so comfortable in heels you can move up to wedges or block heels. But you need to look into your shoe before buying it as it needs to be as wide as the upper of the shoe, If it becomes more narrow towards the middle of the shoe it won't be as comfortable as the one with width as the upper of the shoe. Keeping your feet comfortable during the working day is key. Block heels are the perfect shoe to compliment your outfit and it is comfortable even at the end of the day unlike the high heels.Wedges also balances out thick ankles and calves, and are flattering to the leg. If you have thick ankles and calves, wedges are meant for youWedges are also suitable for the petite.

3. Platforms:



If you are lucky enough to find the perfect platform shoes, they can literally elevate your look, adding up an extra 2 inches of height over single sole heels. Helping you increase your confidence. The stacked sole delivers height with less stress on the ball of the foot. It will be comfortable as well as help you to grow a few inches tall. Though they may not look as sleek and sexy as other heels but that doesn't decrease its comfort.Platform shoes are suitable for ladies with big ankles and thick legs as they give a balance. Platforms with open toes give the appearance of length and platforms are pretty versatile, as it fits almost all body types. So you can always buy a pair without any regrets.

4. Heels:

Now once you are comfortable wearing heels you can add up the inches by choosing heels from different styles. If you still feel that you aren't so sure about adding inches you can still wear heels with strap that will give you extra sense of security. If you are of petite frame do not opt for ankle strap but go for a strap in your feet itself. From pencil heels to stilettos.
From open toe to slingbacks you have many choices to go after you are comfortable with. Stilettos are the way to go. They are particularly flattering for short frames . Open toe pumps are also a boon, as they will give you the extra height without adding the extra heavy look on your bottom.

5. Things to remember:


Some heels are just good to look at but are so uncomfortable as they can be.
So try out before you buy your pair. It is not necessary that every time you end up with the perfect pair or an uncomfortable one. Always know yourself and your need if you do not want to end up regretting buying the pair. Know you size. it is not necessary that the number you wear for your flats or your sneakers also match the size of your heels. Always take a walk before buying.