Tips: Things a woman must stop doing

When I say a woman shouldn't do such things I do not mean to a part of a patriarchal society who imposes a lot of restrictions on a woman. Trust me even I believe that woman should have right to do everything that she thinks she can do. Here are a few things that a woman should stop doing for a better life.
 1. Stop putting another woman down:

It is high time that we realise that we cannot reach a higher position by putting another woman down. You may feel good for a while but the guilt will stay as long as you can remember. How you treat a person actually shows how you are rather than how they are.




2. Ditching friends for boyfriend:


A common mistake, a woman tends to make. Never let go off your friends. In order to have a good relationship, a relationship that runs long you should know that you both need a life apart from each other's company. You do not want to left feeling lonely when he goes out with his boys and is busy to call you or guilty of always clinging on him. Have friends who support you in your thick and thin.

3. Bitching about your girlfriend:

Trust me you do not want have such friends who aren't trustworthy at you back. Most women tend to do so and break ages of friendship. Now a days friendships are also formed on a basis of having a same person to dislike and you go hour and hour trying to break that woman's image. What do you get? Mere satisfaction. But remember there are more people who have already thought of you as a wrong person rather than the one who you were talking about. 

4. Compromising too much
:

It is ok to compromise a little and adjust but when you compromise to an extent you do not remember what you are worth of
. It is indeed time to walk away of the relation, the friendship, the engagement or your marriage. Always know that it is not a good relation when you are always at the compromising end. Always know what worth you are and respect it.

5. Not staying true to your words:

It is ok to change mind as often as one does but once you say something stay true to it. Fulfil the little promises you make to your siblings, to your friend. Be there if you said you will. Speak less if you cannot stay true to what you say. Mean what you  say. Let people respect you for what you say. Value your own words.

Tips: Things a lady must have

Are you up for shopping again? This time utilise your money in buying something a lady must have. Yes, if you are a rash buyer too we do not realise before we use all our money yet not buy what we actually needed and not wear what we end up buying. It is time you actually understand what are the things you must have. You have to shine out in the crowd and it will only happen when you have the right things with you. Here are a few things that you must definitely own.

1. A casual day pair:



A plain tee shirt of basic colours like black, white or even grey. A comfortable denim and of course comfortable shoes or if you prefer flats. You can add up light jewellery like a silver chain or an ear stud for a casual day out. 




2. A little black dress:


Even if you are not the party going type of girl investing in a black dress will never be a loss. Know your body type and buy a dress that actually compliment your body.If you are too shy wearing a dress invest in an net or normal tights that will basically cover you up. But if you are wearing a tights go for shorter dress it will look better. A little black dress compliments short heights girls too. 


3. A watch:


A watch will improve your elegance. Therefore choose a piece that is elegant in itself, this will not only help you look at time easily as you cannot keep holding your phone on your hand every time but also help you look a little more gracious. It can sometime be a reason to strike a conversation with you too. You never know the next person who inquires the time may be your soulmate.


4. Signature perfume:

You can jump from one to another until you find the one that actually defines you. Do not go for a common one you do not want your friends to get confused someone else for you as perfumes remind people of you. So go for one time investment and finalise it. Then see the miracle of how people know you are coming even when you are half a mile away. Perfumes are magical.


5. Signature item:


 You can choose from so many things like a necklace, a ring, a hair clip or may be customise it according to your choice. A signature item actually help you stand out as it is something you always wear.




6. Feet's friends:


Time to invest on a pair of comfortable casual shoe, a running shoe, a boot, a sexy heel, crocs of choice and a flat. These are something you must have for all your moods also if you have shoe fetish adding a few more will never harm.

7. Hanging friends:


Your closets hanger should at least contain an overcoat, a well fitting coat, a denim jacket and a leather piece. Your hangers must have at least two bags of different sizes, a clutch, a sling bag. finally the belt.




8. Pants:


Denims are for all season. Have variety of it. From flared to well fitted. The trending fashion always help so upgrade with the change and also know you have the ability to make it a fashion of what you wear.


9. Formals:


A formal pant, a white shirt, a pencil skirt and a dress will help you solve all your urgency for formals. Team it up with the coats you have.




10. Make-up:


Know the right shade of creams, foundation, lipstick and shadow that will compliment you and make you look more pretty. Also always have a straightener and curler handy you can change the way you look by just a few strokes of these.

Tips: Declutter your life

Are you all caught up? Do you feel hopeless? Are you looking for an escape to nowhere? We usually feel low at some point of the time. We tend to feel that life has become monotonous and everything is out of control, out of order. You feel chaotic in and out. Sleep is not an easy task. Here are a few tips that could actually help you the way it helped me. The secret is to find calm in midst of the chaos and reduce the chaos is to begin with small steps and soon you will realise how these changes help you make peace with yourself.
 1. Clean your table:

The first thing you should begin with is by cleaning your side table, study table, your office table and remove the things that are of no use or of least use. We do not throw away things because of the thought that we might need it someday but trust me we never do. So do not hesitate to throw away things that you no longer use.

2. Make your bed:

Make your bed as soon as you are out of it. It will not only give you the feeling of an achievement of the very first task of the day but also help you feel fresh as compared to the days you leave your bed unmanaged.



3. Clean your closet:

Its time to make your closet a little more organised as it will help you find your things when you need them and also make your day when you find what you are looking for. When you clean your closet, you will come across clothes that no longer fits you, the ones you no longer wear remove them and make space for the new one to come. Trust me shopping always help to relieve you. Be generous and donate the things, clothes that you no longer use. Best remedy to feel happy and good from within.




4. Pen it down:

Sometimes we have so much to say and not have a trustworthy friend to talk to, pen it down. All your feelings do not keep them as more they remain with you the more they make mess and make you feel more and more stressed. Let it go. Make your own to do list and make short term goals the more you fulfill them the more you start feeling good about yourself and your life.

5. Solve the problem:

Sometimes we think our life would be much better without some people in it. If the negativity of a person or group of them is bringing you down its time we bid them farewell doesn't matter even if they are the only ones you have. Remember it is much better to be happy even if it means to be alone. Take this time for catching up with yourself. Go on a date with yourself. Do not let someone bring you down. If you can talk to them and solve the problem if not move out of it.


6. Reset your phone:
Time to move to some new songs and make new favourites, learn them, sing along, dance to the beat. Let go of the songs that remind you of things in the past. Realise you have lived past that phase and are stronger and better. Remove all the old pictures, contacts, videos, notes, memo because you spend more time with your phone the more cluttered it it the more it affects you. Try some new themes for a change. You may feel better.


7. Bring little changes:

Have you only been thinking of doing something? Its high time you do it. Sometimes there is a dissatisfaction when you are not able to do something you really want to do likewise just thinking to do something for a long time do bring you down. Learn something new. Get your creative juices flowing. Change the timings of sleeping and waking up. Try to wake up early and sleep early. 
A power nap is fine rather than that do not sleep during the day and lie awake at night. This will only disrupt your health. Hit a gym. Eat healthy. Drink enough water. Join a library. Enjoy doing things that you usually do


Tips: Know whether she is interested in you or not

It is always hard to be in confusion of not knowing whether the other likes you or is interested in you. Many times knowing that she is not interested in you will save you the embarrassment of being rejected.You really need to look at the hints that she is passing on consciously or unconsciously. Here are a few things that she will do if she is interested in you.


1. Her eyes speak:

 
If she is interested in you she will be looking directly at you or at your direction when you speak or is trying to catch your eye when someone else is talking. She will try to look at you, catches your eyes and hold the stare for a while before looking down with a smile. When you catch her looking at you do notice the dilation of her pupil if she is nearby, it will be dilated.



2. Her lips:

Her lips are a major point you take notice of. If she is interested in you she will smile wider. She will subconsciously make use of her lips for example the way she eats making the perfect shape of her lips, the way she will use the straw. Biting lips may be a habit of a few girls but some do so when they are in front of someone they like.

3. Her hair:

She will try and put extra effort on her hair, she will try out new hairstyles also she will keep playing with her hair while talking to you, if she likes you  but some girls have a habit of doing so, always know the difference between her habit and conscious move of playing with her hair


4. Touches often:

Instead of telling you, she will touch you to dust off, mend your hair or maybe just wipe the residual left at your lips. If she is comfortable in touching you while she speaks it is a sure hint as not many girls like touching others until they mean something to them.



5. Postures:

The way she sits is much more comfortable rather than stiff, perfect poise of a lady. She will bend a little towards you. Her legs will not be crossed even if they are the toe points towards you rather than opposite side. She will keep her hands free and not in a crossed position. She will be facing you with all her body rather then just head when she is talking to you.

6. Texts and Calls:


She may play hard to get it but if she really likes you she will not keep you hanging on just "seen" and no reply. She will text you back and she will not take all your calls but makes sure to call you back when she misses the calls. If a girl takes hours to reply your simple "Hi" then it is time you think she is not interested.

Tips: Look taller instantly

Looking younger than our age may be one of the plus point of being short but at times it is really hard to ignore that being short sucks. Sometimes tall people unknowingly make others look short and decrease their self esteem even if the difference is of a few inches but do not worry here are some tips that can help you look tall instantly.

1. Posture: 

Poor posture positions cause your belly to protrude, giving you a  big belly image and slumping over makes you appear shorter than you are. Standing up straight will correct these issues and improve your appearance. So improve your posture to look inches tall instantly.



2. Vertical over horizontal:

When you go out shopping next time ditch the horizontal striped clothes and choose vertical it will make you look taller and leaner.



3. V neck tops and short sleeves:
 
Befriend V neck tops so that your neck looks long and it will help you draw attention to your upward to your face and short sleeves exposes your skin making you look tall.






4. Belts and bags:

No matter how comfortable the big bags are, if you want to look tall you need to ditch them and adjust with smaller, cuter bags and slimmer belts this will give your body more visibility and make you look taller.

5. Knee length or full length:

The only option you have with your clothes is either you wear above your knee length or something long like maxi that covers you till your foot. There is no in between for you. Shorter the clothes taller you look.





6. Monochrome color:

If you want to look tall then wear monochrome color from top to toe. Color contrast will make you look small. 



7. Pointy flats:

Heels are saviours in a few occasions but one cannot wear heels all the time so its time you invest in pointy flats which creates the illusion and makes you look tall.You can get some help to look tall by choosing the right color, shoes in neutral color, nude color, black, tan, brown and grey.






8. Hair:

 If you really want to look tall then it is time you chop off your long hair and keep it so. As shorter hair makes you look tall.If you cannot cut your hair then all you need to do is tie your hair up in a high ponytail.

Tips: For a fun filled Halloween

Halloween is about trick or treat attending costume parties, carving pumpkins into jack o lanterns lighting bonfires, playing pranks, visiting haunted places, telling scary stories and watching horror films. Here are a few tips that can help you have a fun filled Halloween.




1. Costume:



Get your gang together and have a theme to follow. Get some cool dresses according to the theme you choose.If you are hosting a party let your guest know about the theme for the party and you can even keep some prizes for the winners.




2. Makeup:

Halloween is all about the costume and makeup and it will be incomplete without a flattering makeup to carry your dress well. Choose the kind of makeup your dress requires.



3. Decoration:


What is a Halloween without decoration?Have new ideas and utilise them so that your house looks different than all other decorated houses. You can carve pumpkins in a different way then you usually do. Use lots of lights, colors, balloons, eerie stuffs as cobwebs, spiders, skeleton and many more.





4. Music:

Even when you are at home or out leave the spooky music on it will add on to your party's fun and theme and will also excite the ones that come for trick and treat.


5. Trick or treat:

Get  creative with your treats. Why don't you make all your treats on your own. From chocolate candies to little gifts take some time and have fun this Halloween.

Tips: Save your long distance relationship

Long distance relationship can turn out to be a nightmare if not cared properly. This kind of relationship require double effort from both side. Sometimes we have to blame ourselves rather than the distance for not being able to keep our relationship from breaking. This relation can be as magical and worth fighting for if you can include following tips.

1. Communicate:

Communication is a very vital aspect in any relationship but it is more important in long distance relationship as this will help you bridge the gap between you both. Include your partner for all the big and small event of your day by telling them everything at the very moment when it is happening and thanks to all the apps that helps us do so. Make it as your priority to call them even if you are not much of person who talks. Always ask them how their day was. Call them early in the morning and before bed. Make it a habit. Let your partner know what they mean to you and how much you love them always. We are in a generation that has hundreds of apps that can help us communicate and stay in touch with each other if we want to.

2. Trust:

Relation thrive on trust even if you meet your partner on daily basis but do not trust each other then things between you will go downhill and when you are in distance relationship you have to put an extra effort. Do not believe everything you hear sometimes people just do it out of their habit to destroy people's happiness. First step of trust is by being trustworthy ourselves. If you give no chance for the person to doubt you then the other person will have no issues and vice versa.

3. Visit each other often:


Keep a fixed day of a month or a week to meet each other. This will not only help you to have something to look forward to but also help you keep your relationship alive as sometimes there are conversation that we cannot have over phone. Sometimes we feel dejected and not be able to tell our partners but when we meet we can see what the other is going through and provide some solution.

4. Surprise each other often:

Its hard to stay true when you are in distance relationship and someone near you puts more effort towards you than your partner. No matter how much you love each other this third person will somehow break things for you. To prevent this you should always know your limits. Do not let people see you off guard. You can always pay a surprize visit and also have plans for your partner with help of a friend. For example plan a surprise birthday party or may be get a help from your or their friend to leave a present at the door. A random bouquet of flowers. Things have become so easy all you need is to shop online, pay and enter your loved ones location. Online shopping will deliver it to them. Sometimes we have to think outside the box to keep each other happy and you should not let go of each other as one's priority.

5. Do not fight over phone:


Keep all your problems for the time you meet because a simple fight can be so big as you both won't be able to understand each other's situation over phone. You both will feel helpless to solve it. Do not fight over little things these thing will bring an incurable crack as you both will be unable to rectify it until you meet and solve it which in some cases may take months and so many things change within a week after months you both will just be strangers. Even if you do let the other one have a chance to explain. Sometimes we say things we do not mean.